I am pretty sure this happens to all mothers but right now I feel like the worst mother on earth. Every day that I get the kids ready for school we have the same routine (this is not their routine all of the time because sometimes I have a girl that gets them ready when I am working). We wake up at 7:00. This gives us an hour. The kids get dressed eat etc. My daughter does this no problem. The hard part is my son. By the time they leave every morning I am totally frustrated at him. My statement this morning was you do the same thing every morning why do I have to tell you to put your coat on.... I almost started crying this morning and he did because we were so aggravated with each other. Why does the same thing keep happening when every morning I tell him to hurry up. Well my husband in his wisdom looked at me this morning (he is not usually home from work yet) and said why do you set him up to fail and then get mad at him when he does, change the way he gets ready, set all of his things out. Now in my infinite wisdom I am thinking he is 9 he should be able to handle getting himself ready and be organized. To this my husband replied (in his wisdom, ugh) Why do I have to help you find your keys at least twice a week? Its the same thing. In some areas you need more help. Man aren't husband annoying.
The definition of insanity- To keep doing the same thing over and over and expect different results.
We are not as wise as we would like to think but we can learn. I think I will bake my son some cookies today.